Suka aku baca tajuk ni: ceriterakami.blogspot.com. Aku simpulkan untuk mendidik Adam masa dia bayi ni:
- Biasakan anak bermain pasir, buih, rumput, plastesin. yes, mama dah bawa adam main pasir. seriously, anak aku suka pasir. Watching him observing the sand using his hand and his leg is a miracle. This intended to generate his motor skills. so, let him play. do watch and guide him. Kang dia masukkan dalam mulut naya pulak kang...
- Don't expose to too much things in a box. Adam 6m mama dah bagi ipad mama oooo. Naughty mama. Actually bukan tak boleh nak bagi anak main gadget... But, rules is not more than 10 minutes. Entah la, awal awal dulu Adam tengok lebih. Dia suka tengok youtube, rancangan favourite dia lagu twinkle twinkle, 10 litle bear, pocoyo etc. Mama create favourite list dalam utube untuk Adam. Ada folder lagu kanak-kanak, zikir, and bacaan surah Al-Quran. Sekarang Adam macam dah kurang berminat dengan ipad. Dia tengok sekejap then gigit gigit ipad then main benda lain. Tapi kalau pasang utube kat skrin tv or monitor, lama jugak dia hadap. Boleh, bukan tak boleh. But remember, follow rules not more than 10 minutes and if possible, accompany him using the gadgets/ devices. When he watch pocoyo, we join him. Sing a song together and teach him.
- Stimulate their imitation skills. Senang cakap, is ability to copy-paste what we do. So, ajarla dia clap hands, raise hands, jump etc. Anak I boleh gelak je bila tengok mama clap hand or raised hand. Adehh...
- Banyakkan concept toys berbanding mainan superheroes, monsters, etc. Ok lepas ni nak beli flash cards, tampal abc kat dinding, and nak beli lego bila dia dah start berhenti menggigit. Sekarang semua benda nak masuk mulut aje. isk.
- Bila nak ajar anak bercakap, ajar word dulu, avoid sentence. Contohnya, "Adam, sit". "Come". "Cat...."
- Kalau budak takut strangers. Ask them to high-5. Avoid salam, hug or kiss. Anak I ada bakat tak takut orang. Susah ni... Dah besar sikit kene ajar benda ni.
- Bila anak buat salah. Explain instead of marah. Ok tunggu Adam besar sikit.
- Overly-attached to one person is not a good sign. So far ok la anak I sometimes bagi nenek jaga eventhough rare. Sometimes with his uncle and auntie... Masalahnya, Adam ni suka semua orang. Haish.
- Bila bermain, follow his interest. Coz brain development will effectively happened when your child is interested to do the things.
- Bagi pilihan jawapan untuk enhance communication skill anak. Haaa ini I tunggu Adam boleh bercakap. But actually, aku dah start slowly. Selalu kena perli dengan encik suami, "Mama ni, mama tanya Adam and mama yang jawab sendiri."
